I was just about to hit publish on the original Day 3 post when it happened-I froze.
Suddenly every familiar doubt came rushing in:

• What if I’m not good enough?
• What if no one cares?
• Who am I to have these big dreams?

Putting your purpose out into the world – making it real – is breathtakingly vulnerable. And yes, incredibly scary.

The Old Questions Resurface

I’ve battled this voice before. I spent a lot of my life trying to be who I thought I was supposed to be – likable, responsible, never too much. That pattern eventually turned into a quiet belief that who I was, as I was, might not be enough. Even now, those patterns surface:

• What will people think if I fail?
• Do people even like me?
• Can I really build a business?

Coaches Feel It Too

Imposter syndrome is real. Fear and freeze responses are universal – even for coaches. The work isn’t about never feeling fear; it’s about processing it and moving through the feeling to the other side.

Intentionally crafting an authentic life means pursuing work aligned with purpose, even when the path feels unclear and chaotic at best. It means taking the first uncertain steps and then the next, trusting that clarity arrives in motion.

Living in the Messy Middle

This is the Messy Middle – the awkward expanse between where we’ve been and where we’re going. Puzzle pieces everywhere, border set, picture unfinished. Progress, not perfection.

I don’t have it all figured out and I won’t pretend to. But I’m grateful you’re here while we both figure out where the pieces belong.

An Invitation

If you’re standing at your own crossroads – caught between comfort and calling – I see you. You are not alone. 💜

Let’s keep doing the brave work of building a life piece by piece. For me, that means publishing this post, continuing this series, and growing my coaching practice – even scared.

What fear are you facing right now as you move toward your purpose? Share below so we can cheer each other on.

Ready to take the next step?
If you’re navigating your own “messy middle” and want support, I’d be honored to walk with you.